Ask Sugar: My Husband's Brother Is Making Passes At Me

Dear Sugar,

My brother-in-law started living with us some months back. He's two years younger than my husband and has recently started making passes at me.

At first, I thought it was a joke. One evening when I was cooking in the kitchen, he started telling me about how he likes how I treat and respects my husband and wishes I was his wife. I laughed it off and told him God will provide a woman that will do the same for him.

10 Awe-Inspiring Maternity Wedding Gowns

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Just like every other thing at a wedding, the wedding dress is very important and also a big reminder of your big and special day.

Every bride dreams of a perfect dress; just as every bride differs, their choice of a dream dress also differs. This also applies to pregnant brides. So don't worry! Being pregnant shouldn't stop you from rocking that dress and looking beautiful on your big day.

If you already had a dream dress before your pregnancy, you can always alter it to suit your current state but if you are pregnant and in search of a dress and unsure of the options, here are 10 beautiful gowns to help your choices ranging from style, length, size etc. 

 

 

 

 

How To Avoid Awkward Moments On First Dates

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Many prefer to sit on their couch with a bowl of chips and enjoy a lazy day rather than going on dates because they are afraid their date could go wrong. Take a deep breath; it is not as difficult as you make it to be. Here are 7 ways to avoid all the toe-curling awkwardness;

Top 4 Oversights to Avoid in your Wedding Budget

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As much as you might want to make your wedding budget in tip-top shape, many are not immune to some common mistakes that can be altogether avoided.  Most times, in our bid to be in absolute control of a situation, we err in some simple but essential things. The mantra, “wedding on a budget” should not be synonymous with shoddiness or avoidable but common oversights.

Compiled below are some of the top oversights that could mar the sharp planning of a typified wedding budget:

 

Ask Sugar: I am Having A Culture Clash With In-laws

Dear Sugar,

Pardon me, but this story may be a little long. My husband and I got married early in 2019. I am from Enugu state while my husband is from Ogun state. We love ourselves very much, but before and even after our wedding, we have been facing a lot of issues from his family and now, more recently, mine. 

6 Ways To Spice Up Your Long Distance Relationship

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Long-distance relationships are notorious for being difficult. After all, loving someone who is closeby can be complicated; imagine how intense it can get with someone who is miles away. The only favourable way of maintaining a strong relationship is to spice it up.  Here are a few ways to make Long-distance relationships exciting, fun, and bubbling with love!

 

4 Essential Marriage Books to Read

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Books are a great way to amass knowledge and arrive at a higher altitude of understanding than where you may be now. If we read to know more in almost all areas of our life, do we consider marriage to be such a piece of cake that we can afford to wing it every step of the way? 

Reading appropriate books to gain knowledge of the marital journey is not corny and doesn’t mock the compendium of knowledge you have or think you have. Sometimes, unlearning is just as important as learning. 

Nigeria At 60: How Would You Describe Your Relationship?

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To celebrate Nigeria at 60, we decided to ask a couple of Nigerians how they would describe their relationship with Nigeria. 

If Nigeria was your girlfriend/boyfriend, how would you describe your relationship?

This has to just be wickedness, because how can you ask me that question? Can't you see how I'm suffering?

I will describe that relationship as dead.

 

I'm not happy even though I'm not invested in this country. Ah if Nigeria was a real person I will kill her for the good of everybody.

 

5 Unique Tips For Walking Down The Aisle

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It is time for you to walk down the aisle to the love of your life and you're the centre of attraction. It's likely that you become fidgety about your big walk. To have a smooth and beautiful walk, here are 5 tips that can help:

Ask Sugar: I Don’t Feel The Same With My Husband Anymore

 

Dear Sugar, 

I don’t feel the same with my husband anymore.  We got married when I was 21, immediately after I was done with university and he is my first everything.  It’s been 5 years and we currently have 2 kids.

Everything seems so fast and I am starting to realize that I may not have fully understood what I was getting myself into.

Tips On How To Plan An Outdoor Wedding

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Outdoor weddings are pleasant; natural lighting just has a way of provoking beautiful pictures and creating the right atmosphere for you and your better half when exchanging vows. You can tell from the sound of the beach waves or the rustling of the leaves when the wind blows, that it adds special effects to the occasion. Wedding planning comes with lots of unsolicited advice from friends and family but you are under no obligation to heed all of them. 

Here are a few notes to help out in wedding planning:

5 Items You Must Pack For Your Honeymoon

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The honeymoon is a major part of the post-wedding activities. Everybody looks forward to their honeymoon as it is a time to relax and relieve wedding stress, and also spend some quality time with their new spouse. You want to make sure that you enjoy every bit of your honeymoon as much as possible.

After all the work of making checklists for the wedding itself, it may seem daunting to make a whole new checklist for the honeymoon. But do not fret! 

How To Hire The Best DJ For Your Wedding

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Music is a very important part of life. It provides entertainment, as also serves as a source of inspiration for some. It is also a great part of weddings especially at the wedding reception, so it only makes sense that you should be very careful when choosing the DJ who will play at your wedding.

If you are lost on how to hire a DJ for your wedding, then here are some things that you should keep in mind.

 

How Ladies React During Proposals

As much as we try to deny it, there's so much drama during proposals. For the ladies, here's some of our reaction. What's yours? And if it's missing, add it to the comments.

 

How To Avoid Relationship Drama - Wrong Answers Only

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