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In the annals of wedding traditions, the best man’s speech sits at a comfortable spot at the top, or at the very least, mighty close to it. Over the years, and as wedding traditions are growing into a technicolour display of love and the celebration of it, the best man’s speech has evolved into one of the most eagerly awaited parts of a typical wedding.
It is the ultimate chance for the best man to engage the wedding guests and regale them with tales of brotherhood that has informed the groom’s decision in picking him for the role. Beyond this, it is a chance to recall fond memories of youth that solidified their friendship (depending on the relationship shared).
Have you been chosen for that special role? There’s no need to fret. Below are some foolproof tips to help you ace your best man speech and capture the hearts of the guests.
Plan Ahead
This is simply indispensable! We prepare for everything that we do, from preparing for a meeting presentation to preparing to speak to that person we fancy. Why not a best man’s speech, which is most likely to be etched in the hearts of people who hear you speak? Remember, it might not be the first impression, but it is one that will endure in people’s minds for a long time. So, plan an outline of what to say and when, probably the same way you would prepare for a dissertation presentation; this way, you’re simply going for the jugular to kill that speech!
Speak from the Heart
On this note, honesty is key! Speak from your heart to the guests’ hearts. Despite your intricate planning, don’t force it. It might not have the desired effect. Talk about the truth behind your buddy relationship with the groom. Explore the angle of the bride coming into the life of your buddy and highlight the changes that she effected. Sonorously analyse the beauty and sacredness of love. Love, after all, conquers all.
Garnish your Speech with Strategic Anecdotes
Who doesn’t love a good story? Anecdotes can have a calming effect on your speech and give it that texture that you desire. Tell strategically funny stories about your escapades with the groom. You’ll set the mood to a mix of good humour and emotional content.
Planning a best man’s speech can be nuanced but, when done the right way, can enact a magical experience.